Shelley and Jesse's Wedding

Thompson's Private Garden,
Ulverstone, Tasmania
31st January 2003


It was a sunny afternoon at our campsites by the river, relaxing by the barbecue and chatting about life and love. Most of the family (and its extensions) were there, so of course we were all happy to throw together a few 'theoretical wedding' ideas for us, the still un-engaged couple.

"Well, it could be held at my old dad's garden, with the creek running through..."

"Your father can decorate the gazebo there and make it look nice..."

"You'd look quite dashing in a top hat, and that beautiful pirate-type shirt..."

"Of course we'd need to check that that raw-silk dress is still okay..."
etc etc.

All these ideas flowed easily and merged beautifully, and most were agreed upon without much hesitation. "Yeah, well that all sounds pretty good. Maybe one day..."



A few months later while walking downtown, with memories of theoretical weddings still floating around in our minds, we see a simple but elegant engagement ring waiting in the jeweller's window.

"Well we DID 'organise' a wedding, and it's been discussed more than once before..." were the general feelings of Miss.

"We'll see. It's a big step, but you know I'm not opposed to the idea at all..." was the 'nonchalant' reply of Mister.

And of course, Mister snuck down to the jeweller and bought the ring with little hesitation.



The marriage proposal. It's one of the moments in life that you always remember - so it had to be special. Had to happen at just the right time, just the right place, so I carried the ring box in my pocket waiting for the right moment.

A week passed.

Another week passed.

Finally one night, after an argument which resulted in Miss angrily going to bed, I knew the right moment wouldn't come in time. So I snuck into the dark bedroom and kneeled beside the bed, ring box opened, and asked Miss to turn on the bedside lamp.

I haven't often seen her face turn from angry to happy so quickly... and she even said yes.

But talking about it after, it seems that Miss had visited the jeweller and noticed the ring had gone, and guessed where it had gone to... and from memory, the long wait was the cause of the discontent that led up to the argument. Figures.

At least I was right about one thing - the proposal is a moment you'll always remember.



Fast-forward to 18 months later, and amazingly enough, the riverside camping barbeque stories became a reality with little to no variations from the original ideas.

Mister did indeed look resplendent in his open-neck silk shirt with top hat and cane, Miss was simply beautiful in her timeless raw silk dress with her rose bouquet... and the Page-boy sons and Best man, with Flower-girl neices and Bridesmaid, matched us perfectly - making a classic and very beautiful bridal party.

The final result? A lovely wedding in the beautiful garden setting (which to our luck fell in a sunny day, between days of rainfall), and everyone attending was overjoyed with such a wonderful ceremony. Of course, the laughter and merriment that followed at the reception goes without saying - and Mister didn't even mess up any of his speeches!



The day was captured eternally in beautiful pictures by our friend and photographer Ben Huisman, whose photos you can see adorning this page. The musical accompaniment was chosen by both Mrs and myself, including the awe-inspiring Processional theme and the Reception music tracks that filled in for our live Band during breaks. And our well-deserved honeymoon was a wonderful week in the sunny Gold Coast.

And in closing, now that the honeymoon's over? Well, the fact that we're still sharing our life and love together, and happily expecting the birth of our first child, must mean that we were married for all the right reasons.

To my family, friends and relations - I give you Shelley and Jesse's Wedding.



The Wedding Soundtrack

This is the CD that we compiled for the Wedding, featuring some of our favourite songs and some that just suited the occasion. We also compiled a CD of favourite easy-listening songs for the reception, beautifully presented with a professional finish that we gave to each guest as a thank-you gift.


Track listing

01.  Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring ~ Kitaro
02.  Beautiful In My Eyes ~ Joshua Kadison
03.  The Wedding Song (There Is Love) ~ Paul Stookey
04.  Eternal Flame ~ Pan Pipes
05.  I Don't Want to Miss a Thing ~ Aerosmith
06.  Happy Together ~ The Turtles
07.  Hero ~ Enrique Iglesias
08.  Runaway ~ Pan Pipes
09.  Even When I'm Sleeping ~ Leonardo's Bride
10.  George Bradazon ~ Celtic Harp
11.  Kiss From a Rose ~ Seal
12.  When You say Nothing at All ~ Pan Pipes
13.  Double Jig ~ Celtic Harp
14.  And I Love Her ~ The Beatles
15.  Kitty of Coleraine ~ Celtic Harp
16.  Amazed (Acoustic Version) ~ Lonestar
17.  Runaway ~ The Corrs
18.  Breathing You In ~ The Whitlams
19.  Could I Have This Dance ~ Anne Murray
       

  


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Photos by Ben Huisman


Photos by Ben Huisman Photography.
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